wow Thats what u paid your lawyer?

Guess u get what u pay for

No, lawyer and ex together.....

I respect the heck out those comments......but the man did ask for counselors.

What I have experienced both personally and directly with family and friends.....is that guys are taken advantage of in counseling IF and I repeat IF the woman has her mind made up.

While the system is getting better daily, it is STILL set to give mom custody and Daddy pay.

The only way to secure seeing your children of having the chance to, is a reasonable and willing ex or soon to be ex......like that is gonna happen......or being the one to file first.

Sorry if that sucks but it does, sadly over 50% marriages end this way and only about 15% of dads get equal custody.

The system rewards women to file first, they get the kids, the house and the cash if they file first.

Again my apologies purfusely for being a turd .....really I do not throw these words out lightly.

however, most if not all the time thus far.......I am right.

The system is getting much better about this. Most of the men's cases that my wife does the custody is a 50/50 system.

Now days the judges are doing a better job of assessing the situation before settling community property.
A good friend of mine just finished his community property. Both the man and woman made a good living. Retirement funds were split and wife had to pay the guy a little for the difference in her 401K
The house was appraised wife did not want it guy had to buy wife out. Boat went to the guy corvette went to the woman. Child custody was set up on a 7 & 7 basis with rotation of holidays. The biggest argument was over LSU tickets out the worked that out.
Women used to come out ahead but it has gotten a lot better UNLESS you get caught with your magic stick out of you pants then you are pretty much #*cked.

http://deltabravo.net/custody/stats.php

Check the statistics yourself

Simple answere to the problem - Hitman.
If thats a little to much than go with planting drugs in her possesion...I know people...we can get this done....

:):):)

this dude cracks me the f up !!!! :rotfl::help:

I appreciate all of the responses. I'm going to take the weekend and do some serious thinking and see if I can't have an epiphony(sp?) In the bottom of a bottle of Jameson. I'm on my way to Bourbom st right now and party like I was 18 again.

I know you feel bad man, but be safe tonight. Dont do anything irrational. You have sc support here brother. You and your son will be in my prayers. Divorce is tough, saw what it did to my father and the toll it took on me. My parents splitting up is why I will not get married unless a prenuptial agreement is involved. I dont wanna work my *** off for 20 years and have the woman take it all. F that mess. But in all honesty, best of luck to ya.

also you can't let one situation affect your outlook on all women. If you get one like i got you wouldn't need a prenup.

we should learn from this guy.....

Thats what my dad thought.