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LaAngler 09-11-2009 09:08 AM

Married guys....
 
how is it? would you do it again? what would you have done different?

yak'em-n-stack'em 09-11-2009 09:10 AM

lol this might be gill net material lol
:brew::spineyes: :popcorn:

"W" 09-11-2009 09:13 AM

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Bruce is in LOVE!!!!!!! DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!

LaAngler 09-11-2009 09:20 AM

I'm not in love, i just find this topic interesting

Finfeatherfur 09-11-2009 09:23 AM

Bruce, my first was a disaster! - We could have not been more different, but we ended up getting married. My dad pleaded with me not to do it, even offering to cover for me at the church, but I thought he was just being an a$hole. Two kids, and one divorce later, I am so glad she is not sleeping in the same bed as me! I don't regret getting married to her, only the fact that I figured out what the outcome would be after having two boys. I have joint custody of my little men, and keep them 50% of the year, so I try to do the right thing.

Now, I am married to the best woman in the world. I knew it would be different w/ her, but I still waited to marry her, just out of fear from the first. She is awesome! We have the same interest, get along great, and I can honestly say that after almost 4 years, I am the happiest I have ever been. You will know when you have the right one, just remember that if you can't communicate with them before you get married, you damn sure can't communicate with them after your hitched!

speck-chaser 09-11-2009 09:26 AM

its really great if you have the right one. I got a good one, she spoils me rotten. Better than I deserve,but Im not telling,hah.

killa k 09-11-2009 09:28 AM

Happily married for 7 years.

We will be celebrating our 10th anniversary next April!:grinpimp: Wouldn't change much though, its great having someone that you know cares about you and will always be there for you no matter what. The biggest adjustment is that you can't do whatever you want whenever you want, there are some compromises that have to be made. Dang responisbilities, don't worry most of that comes after you have kids though.

Finfeatherfur 09-11-2009 09:30 AM

Killa - that's funny right there son!!!!!!! lol!!!!!!!!!!!!

"Happily married for 7, having 10th" ........... I got to remember that one!!!!!!!!!!!

killa k 09-11-2009 09:37 AM

Another benefit is that after you've said "I do" you can fart whenever you want, without fear...unfortunatley so can she.

Zachary Boy 09-11-2009 09:37 AM

After 29 years (Sept.19) of marital 'bliss', I don't think I would have changed anything. I just advise my 19 year old son, "Just make sure someone in her family fishes and hunts". That way she will know what she's getting into. If it were not for my wife, I would be dead or in prison...

ripinlips 09-11-2009 09:41 AM

No light matter
 
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Originally Posted by Finfeatherfur (Post 45657)
... You will know when you have the right one, just remember that if you can't communicate with them before you get married, you damn sure can't communicate with them after your hitched!

Very Happily married for 7 years on monday. I would not change anything. As FinFeatherFur said it perfectly communication is the lifeline of a marraige no matter how long you are married.

speck-chaser 09-11-2009 09:44 AM

Its been 16 years of marriage and 5 years of dating before that. My wife never did like to hunt or fish-enjoys the boat ride though. Although after 16 years she might be coming around on the fishing, she let me buy her a fishing license this week. Her second one since weve been married,her first one was to go crabbing-liked that. She never has complained about me going fishing or hunting though. My dad always told me make sure to watch how she treats her dad,cause thats porbably how shes gonna treat you. Found one that was crazy about her dad,and wouldnt you know it shes crazy about me.

huntin fool 09-11-2009 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by LaAngler (Post 45642)
how is it? would you do it again? what would you have done different?



Bruce....Bruce...Bruce....Look at waltrip for example....he was 5'10 when he was married...hes now 5 ft....... :eek: that should answer your question

Mediumheavyaction6'6 09-11-2009 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by huntin fool (Post 45674)
Bruce....Bruce...Bruce....Look at waltrip for example....he was 5'10 when he was married...hes now 5 ft....... :eek: that should answer your question


haha fool you are 13 going on 30 you are one funny dude.:*****::*****::*****::*****::*****:

killa k 09-11-2009 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by huntin fool (Post 45674)
Bruce....Bruce...Bruce....Look at waltrip for example....he was 5'10 when he was married...hes now 5 ft....... :eek: that should answer your question

Fool, doesn't Mrs. W read this site? She might take you down an inch or two.:eek:

Ray 09-11-2009 10:21 AM

First was 6 years.
Then 10 single.
Now going on 10 years with #2.
We fight now and then, but making up is good too.

eman 09-11-2009 10:57 AM

next aug will be 27 years and couldn't be happier. now that the son is grown and gone . we are starting to do things together . She also decided to go fishing w/ me to see what it was all about. i think she'll go agin.
have to agree w/ zachary boy, If i hadn't met her i'd be dead or in jail.

yak'em-n-stack'em 09-11-2009 11:05 AM

how do you guys deal with having someone around you 24/7

Mediumheavyaction6'6 09-11-2009 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by yak'em-n-stack'em (Post 45735)
how do you guys deal with having someone around you 24/7

uuuhhhh......they call it hunting, fishing, football games....etc

chasin spotted tails 09-11-2009 11:15 AM

So long as you find the "right" woman there is one very simple rule.... KEEP THE FIGHTS CLEAN AND THE SEX DIRTY..... words of wisdom given by older men that i thought were crazy!!! that is until i got older and walked in their shoes!!

Ray 09-11-2009 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by yak'em-n-stack'em (Post 45735)
how do you guys deal with having someone around you 24/7

I am gone from home for 2 weeks of the month.
I have a honeymoon every month.

Salty 09-11-2009 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Mediumheavyaction6'6 (Post 45738)
uuuhhhh......they call it hunting, fishing, football games....etc


My wife doesn't fish or hunt and, pretty much, doesn't like sports but we've made it almost 30 years. She has learned to root for OU, tho. :smokin:

bay_slayer 09-11-2009 12:01 PM

I fixed it for you.....:*****::*****:

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Originally Posted by Salty (Post 45772)
My wife doesn't fish or hunt and, pretty much, doesn't like sports but we've made it almost 30 years. I have brainwashed her to root for OU, tho. :smokin:


Bluechip 09-11-2009 12:02 PM

My wife does not fish or hunt and does not like sports either but we have made it almost 20 years....and she has never said anything about how much time or money I spend on my hobbies....I have no regrets...

Is it October YET? 09-11-2009 12:06 PM

fruit cake
 
Angler, Did they legalize gay marrige in Louisiana? You thinking about putting a ring on your life partners finger? hahahahaha

Salty 09-11-2009 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by bay_slayer (Post 45773)
I fixed it for you.....:*****::*****:


Quote:
Originally Posted by Salty http://www.saltycajun.com/forum/imag...e/viewpost.gif
My wife doesn't fish or hunt and, pretty much, doesn't like sports but we've made it almost 30 years. I have brainwashed her to root for OU, tho. :smokin:




Hardly, since she's the reason I'm an OU fan. :smokin:

Salty 09-11-2009 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Is it October YET? (Post 45777)
Angler, Did they legalize gay marrige in Louisiana? You thinking about putting a ring on your life partners finger? hahahahaha


Can't, W's already taken. :smokin:

bay_slayer 09-11-2009 12:12 PM

How is she the reason, if she doesnt even like sports and she has "learned to root for OU"?
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My wife doesn't fish or hunt and, pretty much, doesn't like sports but we've made it almost 30 years. She has learned to root for OU, tho.

Is it October YET? 09-11-2009 12:16 PM

prove it
 
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Originally Posted by Salty (Post 45780)
Can't, W's already taken. :smokin:

Just like Obama's birth certificate, has anyone ever seen little willie's marriage cert.? It is a "big lake" for them two to hide on!!!

CatDaddy 09-11-2009 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Bluechip (Post 45775)
My wife does not fish or hunt and does not like sports either but we have made it almost 20 years....and she has never said anything about how much time or money I spend on my hobbies....I have no regrets...

My wife is the same way. We get along great most of the time, but like always, we are going to get int a few fight here and there. My wife dont like hunting or fishing that much either, but she will take a trip with me every once in a while. And she dont complain about the money that I spend on guns, shells, calls, decoys, baits, poles, ect..... Of course i warned her before we got together, I told her that I hunted and fished ALOT.. she said she could handle that, I said "no baby.. you dont understand... I fish and hunt EVERYDAY that im home" I think she is starting to realize what i meant, but she is ok with that.

CatDaddy 09-11-2009 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by bay_slayer (Post 45782)
How is she the reason, if she doesnt even like sports and she has "learned to root for OU"?


:eek::eek::eek::eek:

bay_slayer 09-11-2009 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by CatDaddy (Post 45786)
:eek::eek::eek::eek:


Just wondering how thats posssible?:cool::confused::smokin:

huntin fool 09-11-2009 12:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Is it October YET? (Post 45784)
Just like Obama's birth certificate, has anyone ever seen little willie's marriage cert.? It is a "big lake" for them two to hide on!!!



:*****::*****::*****::*****::cry::*****::*****:

yak'em-n-stack'em 09-11-2009 12:29 PM

Fool,

why arent you in school son

huntin fool 09-11-2009 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by yak'em-n-stack'em (Post 45790)
Fool,

why arent you in school son




Son i have 21 skip days :eek: day before teal season, do da math :p








































teachers inservice...no school

CatDaddy 09-11-2009 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Salty (Post 45779)
Quote:
Originally Posted by Salty http://www.saltycajun.com/forum/imag...e/viewpost.gif
My wife doesn't fish or hunt and, pretty much, doesn't like sports but we've made it almost 30 years. I have brainwashed her to root for OU, tho. :smokin:




Hardly, since she's the reason I'm an OU fan. :smokin:

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Originally Posted by bay_slayer (Post 45787)
Just wondering how thats posssible?:cool::confused::smokin:


And she is also the reason he is an OU fan...

yak'em-n-stack'em 09-11-2009 01:04 PM

im watching you fool

southern151 09-11-2009 01:07 PM

Think long and hard bout the whole M word. Just did it this year and to do over....Well, I love my wife but, I also loved not having to ask or tell anyone what my plans were. I miss S. American vacations on the beach. I miss Sturgis, SD. I miss a lot of things that I can't just run off and do anymore! There are A LOT of adjustments to be made after marriage! Most of the guys who have been married a good while have made those adjustments and are fine now, I guess. I am still getting used to the switch.

As for not caring about money spent on your hunting/fishing?...Not sure on that one. Mine seems to be a little jealous. Of course, I may just be paranoid.

LittleRob 09-11-2009 01:15 PM

I'd do it over again, cause I have my little ones, we were together 7 yrs. before we got married, her family hated me, but now her mom likes me. Love my life.

Bluechip 09-11-2009 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by LittleRob (Post 45819)
I'd do it over again, cause I have my little ones, we were together 7 yrs. before we got married, her family hated me, but now her mom likes me. Love my life.

Good to hear but does this mean that the rest of the family still hates you????:eek:

Ray 09-11-2009 01:19 PM

My wife didn't like me going hunting until after we got married. Before the wedding, she acted like she didn't care. But she got over it.
Same with fishing, so I go when she is working. Except for a few Saturdays, when Jordan talked me into going.

Zachary Boy 09-11-2009 01:26 PM

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
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Originally Posted by Bluechip (Post 45820)
Good to hear but does this mean that the rest of the family still hates you????:eek:


CatDaddy 09-11-2009 01:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ray (Post 45821)
My wife didn't like me going hunting until after we got married. Before the wedding, she acted like she didn't care. But she got over it.
Same with fishing, so I go when she is working. Except for a few Saturdays, when Jordan talked me into going.


Its all Jordans Fault

Ray 09-11-2009 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by CatDaddy (Post 45824)
Its all Jordans Fault

He's a big azzed bassturd too.

speck-chaser 09-11-2009 01:38 PM

when your wife is your best friend then you dont mind being around them 24/7

Deerfarmer 09-11-2009 02:12 PM

29 years 4 months
 
Been married 29 years and 4 months. Had some hard times and wondered if we were going to make it. Had a whole lot more good than bad. Raised 2 kids. One married with a 10 month old son and the other at Oklahoma State. Its been great. Mine lets me hunt, and fish almost anytime. Might just be to get rid of me for a while. LOL:spineyes::spineyes::cry:

jpeff31787 09-11-2009 02:18 PM

not married.. but been with mine for 3.5 years... she used to hate the sound of me going fishing and going with me.. now she don't mind too much(still rarely comes) but, she even helps me clean my fish now lol.. Think I got a good one

Always thought I'd find a girl who'd love the sport as much as me, but it looks like most of the guys here, didnt do that either

huntin fool 09-11-2009 02:22 PM

Not married yet..but i'll speak for my dad--- married 21 years.... she loves to fish, she'll come hunt..Aslong as I've been around i have never heard her complain about us hunting/fishing

slip knot 09-11-2009 02:35 PM

Wife an I have been together 10 yrs now. As some one stated earlier communication is key ,ya got to be able to talk out your problems. My wife and I both have good jobs so we decided to keep our money seperate. I pay half the bills she pays half. As long as i can afford the toys she doesn't complain. And vice versa. My wife loves to fish so the only problem i have is finding the time to go.

She usually catches most of the fish. and helps clean em too.
I'm a lucky man ...SK

Jordan 09-11-2009 02:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ray (Post 45821)
My wife didn't like me going hunting until after we got married. Before the wedding, she acted like she didn't care. But she got over it.
Same with fishing, so I go when she is working. Except for a few Saturdays, when Jordan talked me into going.



***... blame it on me ???? Im ready to go again... gotta show u my new spot so u can potlick it..... AHHH HA HA HA HA HA HA :rotfl:


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