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Just found out my girlfriend of 3 month's is pregnant!! And it's not mine(she was pregnant a month before we met) either one of us know. I am 34 she is 22. I know its an age gap. Not what I am worried about. Worried about she has not taking care of herself( been falling down drunk more then once since we met) yes she claims she didn't know.. my question is can i/should I raise a nothier man's kid. It would be different if she had a kid or would have known she was pregnant when we met.... any advice/ life story's would help. I know it's not an easy thing to talk about in this switchwashon..

Change your phone number and move, TODAY:work:

RUN RUN RUN..........you about to be in bady daddy/Mamma Drama !!

i was gonna say the same thing... plus it sounds like she was just a child still. not wifeing material if she is still a "party" girl.... my friend had the same thing happen to him and best advice is to send her packing right now before its too late and you fall in love with a baby that isn't yours!

run run run



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pregnant secks:smokin:




If this is a serious post:rotfl:


If not a serious post still :rotfl:

Bet this thread goes Double Epic

Four months pregnant and she didn't know it?????? Sorry, not acceptable these days....I sure couldn't maintain a relationship with a sense of distrust that this issue brings up.

RUN RUN RUN!!! but not till after you have a lil fun first!! Cant get her double preggo! lol

*****, then she'll be claiming its his....

Yeah but he already knows betta!

true dat....

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drama drama drama

Seriously I would split.

Cut your loses now and you'll be okay.



I have a workfriend that was in the same situation as you. He's since split with the girl but is still a father figure to the daughter she had while they were dating. He's paying for her to go to LSU. Girls dad is no where in the picture.

And remember...... the best way to get over one chic is to get into another one.

I think you already knew the answer to your question before you asked it

Been together 3 months and you talking about raising another man's unborn kid? Drop that like a bad habbit! There is no investment there.

Gtfo

1) Don't go to the internet for advise

2) The age gap maybe a bigger deal than you think. It sounds like she still has alot of growing up to do. Maybe you do to; I don't know you. You do not want to be the only mature adult in the situation when its not even your kid. And, you don't want to realize what you want out of adult life and she could still may years to go before she gets to that point.

It's noble of you to try and help her out. But she got herself in the situation and she needs to figure it out. You can still remain supportive of her, but I would step back from the relationship for awhile and let emotions cool down.

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I agree with this... But if I was you, you better go to the Doc and get check and make sure she didn't give you anything in return.. Sounds like she has been mushroom head jumping pretty good


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Run don't walk

Seriously dude, GTFO!

Run until winded. Drink powerade. Run further. Repeat.

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Your a real stand up guy I can tell by the way you don't want to abandon her in a time of need and emotions. But let me tell you, your stand up guy attitude and caring heart are going to get you in a whole whirlwind of crap that you don't deserve nor do you want part in. If you stay with her your gonna bring a ton of crap on yourself for the majority of your life and you've only got one to live. Better make the best of it and not bring undue troubles on yourself. An if it's the young girl aspect that you like, don't worry plenty of them out there that want to date older guys. Not that you fall into the "older" category but you catch my drift

Guys yes this is a real post!!! And yes I made my mind up before I posted it. Just wanted some other thoughts or experienceies. With it before i told her!! No I do not take internet advice. But there was some good post as to just say good by bittttccch !!! I know it's not an easy question for anyone to answer. I will keep yall posted on what happens. Thanks.

has nothing to do with age for me.
It Just happened we new each other and it worked out! But no I am not ready to have a kid,and for sure one that's not mine!!

And no she's not a slut or ho that just throws it around. She knows for sure.now but that still don't chang my mind!!

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If you are tempted to change your mind and give thought to staying with the pregnant young lady, I recommend you seek advice from your mom, your dad, your uncles, and any grandparents.

She's 4 months prego and you've been with her for 3 months and the baby's not yours. Simple math says she prolly had you laying your head on her pillow before the last guys imprint even had time to get cold. Not sayin shes a skeez, but damn.

Give her a gift card to baby gap, tell her congrats, and hit the road....FAST!

If not, you'll be setting yourself up for 100000000xs the trouble, heartache, and drama then the little bit you'll have to deal with right now.

But if you're gonna cut her loose, then cut her loose. It ain't right shopliftin' the pooty if you are not going to hang around.

I know I know!!! All good points, and I have talked to them, and got there opinions, and half I just can't agree with, is way I was asking here. To get real world advice !!

put as much distance between the two of you as possible. anything less than that, and well... its an issue that will always be in the back of your mind if you stay. bad health and terrible times are sure to follow

Truth is she knew she was preggo and just never told you, doubt she went 4 months without knowing...probably didn't want to face it...GTFO while you can!

I don't know man, some dude left a potent oil slick in that 2 pay periods before you. And that's the only time you know about because she got pregnant.

3 months ain't enough time to know anything about anyone.

This...and not on the internet.

You can't be serious. This is obviously a horrible idea to even consider.

Unless you have out kicked your coverage, and she was way hotter than any woman you are typically with.

If that's the case, I say let it ride and disregard my previous statements.

My last post on this.
Andy you seam like a squared up dood. If she will listen to you, suggest the following to her;
1. Start acting like an adult (zero alchohol or drugs)
2. Find an adoptive family for baby (easy to do)
3. Follow through with adoption ( see #1)
4. Find someone to sort out her issues

Good Luck and God Bless

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Negative! Run and run fast, u will thank us!

u need to punch that ho in the stomach.
i'm guessing this is the only girl u have ever slept with. lol

i think u should marry her and give her babbydaddy a 'reach-around' every time he comes by to knock her up again. at least that's what oprah would say.
keep us posted......

Some good advice some really bad advice!! Thanks, we are going to talk tonight again an told her I would make my mind up by Wed. That way I have time to thank about it, and she dose to. And I don't just spring it on her whatever I decide!! I thank that's far!!

decision is

I agree with RAYMOND 100X....

AMEN!!!!

Don't try to fall in love with someone you have to fix first. You both can get over a 3 month relationship pretty easy. Move on, find a woman that knocks your socks off and you can't be around enough.. Been with mine for over 28 years.

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I had a similar situation. Found out girl I used to poke after the bars sometimes was pregnant when I was 21 y/o. There was a chance it was mine but she had been dating another guy and they were sure it was his. Started dating my wife about 2 months later. I told my wife when we started getting serious that there was a chance that I might be having a kid in a few months. She was shocked but stuck with me. Well, she ended up being mine. Now my daughter is 8 years old and I wouldn't change it for anything. My wife and I just had our first daughter this last Sunday.

Gotta know when to hold em and know when to fold em. IMO, I wouldn't stay with her. She is way too young and still plans on doing a lot more partying. My baby momma was very similar with the drinking and partying. Thought never even crossed my mind to be with baby momma. Even though my wife stayed with me, b/c she is a saint. I can't say I would have done the same!

She knew...trust me. Don't do that to yourself.

Been there years ago. Finally made since why the one I was seeing was adamant about not using protection. Luckily, I was adamant about using it, and she got would get pissed. She had plans...

Buy one get one free..

Don't take this disrespectfully Andy, but!

R u phuccckkking kidding!
Use ur damn head north of ur penis for a change!

Drop that ho like a shot from a gun! Boom the **** just got real!