Surreal Day......this can't be happening again.....
 

When Huey was born at 27 weeks gestation my world changed forever. We faught to survive for 3 months in the NICU right there with him.

Today, He is my best friend.

I find myself here again. My wife Chelle is only 30 weeks into our pregnancy and we have been admitted into Labor and Delivery.

Terrified doesn't even begin to scratch the surface of what is going thru my mind right now.

I am in disbelief and limbo at the same time. At what point does your love for your unborn child need to turn into the need to protect your wife?

How do I look at her as just an organism that is hurting Chelle?

A paernts love for his child vs. A husbands love for his wife............

I haven't talked to Chelle about my feelings or the horrible scenarios going thru my mind......if any of you reading this know her. Please never mention it.

This isn't the place to talk about such things, but I can't find the hispital priest right now.

Pray Tim. Pray hard. My phone is on if you need me man!

X2. Go find another priest or someone to talk too.

Call if you want to talk.

And don't jump to conclusions. Just because things happened once doesn't necessarily mean it will happen again.

Praying for you. Have been in similar situation and hard to see through troubles to see Gods love for you and your family. Keep your faith and keep putting one foot in front of the other. God has a plan for you and your family!!

We have lost 2 that way and all I could do was put it in the hands of God and Doctor.

I truly feel empathize buddy, and I'm not good at empathizing at all...

There are 2 ways that these things change people, since it happened I am much more at ease in adverse situations and don't let much of anything bother - I'm extremely patient now and feel more at peace, hell not much worse can happen and you just gotta roll with it.

The other change that takes place is pure anger and frustration, this will not do anyone any good. I believe the route you take is in your control.

Keep your head up, this too shall pass and you all will grow as a result, no matter the outcome.

Saying a prayer for you and your wife.


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Never been in your situation but if you need to talk you got my number bro! Leave it to god and hope for the best.

Sorry to hear this.
If you need anything give me a call

Praying for you guys.

One word PRAY. He is the creator of all things and his plan is greater than any of ours. On another note. It may not seem like much but 30 weeks is alot different than 27 when it comes to pregnancies.

Terrible. My prayers are with y'all.

Remember The Good Lord is always in control even in the tuffest of times.
Tim I'm praying for you and your family.

"The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a STRONGHOLD in times of trouble.
Those who know your name trust in you, for you, Lord, have never forsaken those who seek you"....Psalm 9:9-10

Let us know if we can help in any way
until we hear different we're all praying.
Keep you head up

Prayers sent Tim!!!

Praying for you and your wife Tim

Sorry to hear this Tim.......... If you need anything don't hesitate to call. You know through our conversation last weekend that I'm not an extremely religious person, but I do turn to prayer in tough times and I will be praying for y'all.

Prayers sent

Heavenly Father I ask that you give Tim and Chelle the strength they so desperately need in this time of uncertainty. Amen.

Prayers sent