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Originally Posted by Frank Buck
The only person who wins are the attorneys....Dink is absoloutly right....Think about it long and hard....I had a bad one, FFF had a bad one as well as a lot of folks....Anyone can get divorced...Only a select few can work it out....My garbage man passes on Wednesdays, take pride and throw it in there, doesn't cost a thing....Counseling is the way to go for sure...Unless there are really bad circumstances that you absoloutley cannot deal with...It's tough to live with another human being...Gotta work at it EVERYDAY! Good Luck!
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I respect the heck out those comments......but the man did ask for counselors.
What I have experienced both personally and directly with family and friends.....is that guys are taken advantage of in counseling IF and I repeat IF the woman has her mind made up.
While the system is getting better daily, it is STILL set to give mom custody and Daddy pay.
The only way to secure seeing your children of having the chance to, is a reasonable and willing ex or soon to be ex......like that is gonna happen......or being the one to file first.
Sorry if that sucks but it does, sadly over 50% marriages end this way and only about 15% of dads get equal custody.
The system rewards women to file first, they get the kids, the house and the cash if they file first.
Again my apologies purfusely for being a turd .....really I do not throw these words out lightly.
however, most if not all the time thus far.......I am right.