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Originally Posted by Dink
Thanks guys.....and girl. Checked it again today. I must say, the boys got game!!!!
What worries me the most is that he reminds me of me........I'm gonna try to be the "big brother" that he doesn't have.....the fine line between dad and friend is to fine for me to see, so I came up with the brother thing.....
What y'all think of having a few of his friends there too?? They are like a second family to me since they're always around......it may lighten the mood a little and get them talking. Then after I can pull him aside and talk in private???
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i see your good intentions with having the friends around, but in this case I'd say no friends man. I'm just trying to think on how i would of liked my dad to do this and I think I'd rather it just me and him. I think may dad would of said something "look man I've been hearing some rumors of you and some girls and I don't like what I'm hearing and I'm going to ask you to stop before you get yourself into some trouble."
Or something along those lines.. nonaggressive yet assertive in a way. Just do your thing bro, I hope it goes well Tim! I know its gotta suck and the ugly thing is it'll probably suck even more by the time i have a kid and he/she is 13...