Bruce, my first was a disaster! - We could have not been more different, but we ended up getting married. My dad pleaded with me not to do it, even offering to cover for me at the church, but I thought he was just being an a$hole. Two kids, and one divorce later, I am so glad she is not sleeping in the same bed as me! I don't regret getting married to her, only the fact that I figured out what the outcome would be after having two boys. I have joint custody of my little men, and keep them 50% of the year, so I try to do the right thing.
Now, I am married to the best woman in the world. I knew it would be different w/ her, but I still waited to marry her, just out of fear from the first. She is awesome! We have the same interest, get along great, and I can honestly say that after almost 4 years, I am the happiest I have ever been. You will know when you have the right one, just remember that if you can't communicate with them before you get married, you damn sure can't communicate with them after your hitched!
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