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Originally Posted by simplepeddler
Thanks Mathgeek.....perfect response...........
I am not hammering the wife at all..........I am hammering the system.......
Go through the big D and see what I mean.
In this country today......over 80% of divorces are filed by the woman.......of those......76% walk away with the kids, half the assets and check every month.
7% of divorced dads are legally "dead beat" less than that are domestic abusers.......BUT the system allows the mere hint of either and the dad has his rights stripped away.
when this country is in dire need of a father's involvement......the system is set to take him out the picture.
While it can be argued, a cheater is not a good dad.........no dad is worse than a cheating dad......many many factors go into the decision to cheat.....
My numbers may be off.....it's been 14 years for me
Women have the upper hand.......period......end of story.......and the numbers continue to show that for every 76 men that cheat, 74 women cheat......IRONIC???
I am not defending the act of adultery.......I am defending forgiveness and moving one's life forward.
That being said......the photo is pretty damn funny.
okay, off my soap box
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Very well said. People do stupid stuff at times. Lots of people cheat its just a fact of life. Not trying to justify it at all. I had a stupid time in my life. We got through it and im now more dedicated to my family because of it. There isnt a day that goes by that I don't wish I could take back what I did. I can't so im stuck with it. The look I saw on my wifes face when I told her was the only time in my life that putting a gun in my mouth and squeezing the trigger actually crossed my mind. Call me a low life if you want. At that time I was. No debating that.
As far as why I guess it was a few too many beers and ole girl give a bj like she was trying to win a trophy for it.