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Originally Posted by eman
Fixing to make 31 years of marriage. I have always told my wife that If she ever decided that she wanted to have an affair to just tell me she wanted a divorce. Because there would be no forgiving or 2nd chances.
And i put the same constraints on myself because i could not expect forgiveness from her for breaking our vows we swore before God and our family and friends.
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I guess it comes down to a personal choice for the person cheated on and then a choice as a couple as to what happens. I've walk that road as the cheater. We chose to get past it and we did. Not saying it was a cake walk but it can be done. Everyone makes bad decisions. Some are just worse than others. I crushed my best friend and I have to live with that forever. No amaunt of forgiveness from her will ever make me feel better. Am I a bad person? I guess it depends who you ask. I have four judges of my life. Im doing good with the first three. I haven't met the fourth one yet. I hope its a long time before I do.