iPhone is great for non-tech savvy folks. Set it up once and never worry about it again. My wife and mother both love theirs. I would have to hang myself if I were limited to what the iPhone can do and its God-awful slow performance and 3G speeds. 4G is over 6x faster and I'm in 4G all the time where I work and most of the time at home. I'm sure iPhone will catch up in regards to technology when they come out with the next model in a year or two. By then Droid will be even further ahead, though. The "new" voice features Apple will have on its 4S have been available on Droid for over a year, and I use it regularly. Y'all will love it when it is finally available on your phones.
Catch - Do a Google search for "Droid iPhone market share".