Take everything wt just said as gospel! I'm glad he chimed in on this. Sadly, he knows all about your current situation. Adding to that, he was a great mentor when I was dealing with my dad's heart attack. He could likely be of more help than most here, again, sadly, due to experience.

I know he did a lot to tone me down when I was in a tough spot with illness.

Salteredneck,

I will keep your family in my prayers well. PM if you are interested in taking the wife and kid to disney world for a few nights. We have a condo there with some availablity that you can use for free.

Accept the boat. No one believes in fiscal responsibilty more than me, however cherished items ( guns, baseball gloves, gun cabinets, etc.. ) are worth more memories than anything.

God bless and there really isn't a cut and dry answer. Do what you think is best.

Thank you for your words/story. I wish the best for you and your family.

All i can say is the things i have that are from those that are no longer with me ,mean more than anything i can buy for myself. Prayers are with you and the family.

Thank you all for your words of wisdom.

A little update: i am going tomorrow to pick up my new Ocean Prowler 13 Angler. I spoke with my wife long and hard on the issue and she wouldnt budge. Thanks to everyone for the advice.... seems i had little say on the issue in that she would've gotten it behind my back regardless LOL. I am blessed and i love her dearly.

Well done. Hope you enjoy it. Will remember to still keep you both in my prayers. You should post a picture of it.

I will when i get it... will do a fam photo... son, wife, myself, kayak..... a hallmark card LOL

HaHa! Good stuff!

Good deal!!!! Remember keep her smiling!!!!!

Prayers sent,
Enjoy what time y'all have left together.
Your story sure makes me appreciate my wife and the blessings that we have.
Please keep us posted.