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Originally Posted by "W" (Post 694073)

Man y'all fishing with the wrong peeps , I can say that all my friends I've fished with over the years always offer ( I don't always take ) something

Most now just bring me 2 1/2 gallons of oil

Back in my early years he'll it took 3 of us to go fishing
One to drive , one who had boat , one who could buy beer lol

It also costs $500 to fish with you now! lol

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Originally Posted by AubreyLaHaye458 (Post 694097)

It also costs $500 to fish with you now! lol

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$525 :D

W is spot on........I still fish with them boys that I fished with we all were broke.......most of us are all blessed now.....

When I went through a horrible divorce it was those boys that moved me, moved me back in and helped keep me sane by keeping me on the water.......

I will help the next group going through the same BS now.......

But all I really need is apprceciation and for someone to ask if they can help.

I just got tired of cleaning boat my self. And fish my self. So now I go by my self. If somebody makes it with me I don't hesitate to ask for what's needed. If I don't need it I just don't ask.
I expect the same from others. Don't stew and resent me for not living in your moment ask for what u need and u will get it but don't ever let me hear u talk resentful of me for not thinking of you when u want. I got no e s p n. that's why I bean fishing alone.
Reminds me of how cool people are that show up out there. Ya I went by my self but the cool guys show up out there not just to go with me but were I went.

Oooops.

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Originally Posted by lil bubba (Post 693909)

I'm going regardless . What chafes me is when you coming with me in my truck and my boat with my gas and ice and launch fee and you LATE. .. You get 15 min. the first time , second time 0 min. I leave without you.....I actually had a guy tell me he retired and don't set a clock for nobody.....He didn't get the second chance.....

Man I hate it when people are late. Sometimes things out of our control make us late and thats understandable. Its the always late people that get on my nerves. I used to hunt with a friend that was late every time. After a while it wasnt a question of if he was gona be late it was how late he was gona be.

Always clarify before a offshore trip. 100-175 gals fuel ain't cheap! I like bringing ppl I can exchange fishing trip for duck hunt, plumbing work, anything.

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Originally Posted by Ratdog (Post 694206)

Dang I did not relize I'm so mean.

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Originally Posted by Ratdog (Post 694251)

Dang I did not relize I'm so mean.

Not doing yourself any PR favors for your upcoming guide business and show!

I always offer to pay my share or help clean up. I also appreciate when people offer when they fish in my boat, I dont get mad when they dont but they wont be on the top of the list of people I invite to go either

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Originally Posted by MathGeek (Post 694003)

Clarifying expectations up front is probably the best policy.

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Originally Posted by Tete Dur (Post 694041)

^^^^^ What he said.

I am always very clear up front, I have lived most of my life needing a friend with a boat to fish until I started working on a charter boat. After I joined the Marine Corps and worked my way up the latter, I am now in a position to have my own boat... now that I can afford it, I always welcome the chance to take those that cannot afford to go but enjoy to fish. I tell them from the beginning I do not expect anything, just bring your own food and drinks and any favorite fishing gear they like to fish with.

Now... with that... most of the friends I fish with are just like me, they know I will not except any monetary compensation so they find a way to repay me somehow.

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Originally Posted by "W" (Post 694073)

Man y'all fishing with the wrong peeps , I can say that all my friends I've fished with over the years always offer ( I don't always take ) something

It is always great to have friends like that, I have been lucky so far to have the same.

I really believe it is also how we treat our friends as well... If you use them then they use you, if you are a true friend then so are they.

Most now just bring me 2 1/2 gallons of oil

Damn two strokes :smokin:

Back in my early years he'll it took 3 of us to go fishing
One to drive , one who had boat , one who could buy beer lol

I enjoyed those days, eighty cents a gallon and three dollars for a five pound box of cigar minnows, and you come back to the dock with an ice chest full of snapper and lemon fish... those were the days.