I'm going to try and stay. I put everything out on the table last night and I feel it is in her hands. I know I still need to do my part but now she knows that I need help with the kids and will no longer be the bad one by myself. We are just going to take it day by day and see how it goes. I also told her that I am buying a boat and that is that. Have to take advantage of the upper habd for the two seconds I have it.