[joshdomingue]

Originally Posted by eman

All well and good WT, But you know the only thing that the groom knows about the wedding is ,What time to show up.
We did the JP route too. 27 years ago they were like priest . You just gave them some $. Was no set charge
Z Boy, Decide what YOU can Afford and tell them both. (Bride and Mom) that this is what i can spend . Then sit the bride and future SIL down w/o mom and offer to pay for a small JP wedding and give them the balance as a wedding present.( We took the second option).
I have seen to many bridezillas and Momzillas that can't agree on what to do and the bride ends up in misery and future hubby learns early.
If the wife aint happy, you aint happy.

You got that rite!!!!