We all did it. Some earlier than others, some more often. That does not mean it is ok. I would try not to let him know how you found out. But talk to him. We all have desires, but have to use self control or risk destroying our marrige, family, friends, finances. When I talk to my kids about any thing, I talk about it from several different points of view, his, mine, friends, GOD. I personally am catholic. If you are not a practicing christian, it is never to late to start. Unmarried sex is a sin in all christian religions (I THINK). My friend is a nurse. They tell their kids the horror stories: pregnacies, diseases, drunk driving fatalities and injuries, drug over doses, etc. I got a book at a christian book store. It gives advice for kids of all different ages. Most of the books are not written from a religious stand point. Its more of a how to talk to your child and about what to talk about. It is possible to let them know you are disappointed in a kind manner so that it will encourage open and honest communication between yall. Good luck and I will keep your family in my prayers.
I would also look up pictures on the net of STD'S , DRUG OVER DOSES (I know of one that got high and thought roaches were all over him. He sprayed raid in his mouth up his butt then rodded him self out with a toilet brush. He had lots of reconstructive surgeries.), and alcahol related accidents.
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