Somebody else already said it,a child needs BOTH parents,not only in their lives but to stand beside each other and be firm with discipline!I dont whip my kids for everything,some things they get time out,or sit in the corner,or writting lines(they hate that),but they know Ill whip them in a second if they need it!! I have very respectful,well behaved kids b/c of this.The most important thing is to not spank when you are angry and when you are done spanking you sit them down and explain and make sure they understand why they got it.and make sure they know you love them!!
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