A bunch of my dads friends told me at his funeral that they wish they would have gone to see him in his final days.............I would go.
However on the other hand, the last time I seen my Uncle on my moms side we were having boiled seafood at my moms house. He told me that he knew he was about to go and looked me straight in the eye and said I know I don't have much time to live, and this is my good bye. So seeing him moving around and having a decent day was my last living memory of him.
If nothing else you should call your friend and tell him you remember the good times and the bad times and you appreciate him. If he tells you that he would like to see you then go over, but at least talk to him.
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