Just look at it from his (her ex) point of view. What does he have to gain from you leaving the state with his child? Probably very litle or nothing. And in fact he has a lot to lose. You cannot price time with your children, nor the influence. Would you and your wife be willing to move to Ms and leave the child with the natural father?
There are complex and critical issues and should be decided with only the child's interest in mind. I know it sounds harsh, but it's true. If the child and his father don't want the child to move and you do it anyway you will cause irrepairable damage. This has the very well being of a child at risk. Not an issue for the courts.
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