1) Don't go to the internet for advise
2) The age gap maybe a bigger deal than you think. It sounds like she still has alot of growing up to do. Maybe you do to; I don't know you. You do not want to be the only mature adult in the situation when its not even your kid. And, you don't want to realize what you want out of adult life and she could still may years to go before she gets to that point.
It's noble of you to try and help her out. But she got herself in the situation and she needs to figure it out. You can still remain supportive of her, but I would step back from the relationship for awhile and let emotions cool down.
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