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Originally Posted by simplepeddler
uh..........over 50% of the states are "no fault" states....thus negating everything you just typed by at least half.......
NO one and I mean NO person or response here ever said the system was punitive to "adulterous husbands" the fact is the system is punitive to ALL men regardless of the "reason"
You absolutely are missing the point ......Child support is based ON TIME......as a percentage of TOTAL income....there are guidelines set....the more time you have the more/less support needs to be paid.........
my Bible reads I can be forgiven.......to assume that a person cannot be healed and become a great father is against everything I beleive......same for mothers.....
If you believe the system is fair then so be it.........but I'll bet if it becomes you, your brother, your son, your dad.....you may be challenged.....
There is a better than 50% chance you children will suffer from this......don't think it cannot happen
AND there is a better than 50% chance our own dad's had thier own indiscretions......they grew up in a time where it was before woman's movements and affairs were not only accepted but encouraged to "relieve" stress......
Serial adulterers ? Who ever even brought that up?
Again, I respect your views and encourage all men to think and strongly believe like you.......but sanctamonious opinions after the deed will NEVER resolve the damages of divorce no more than putting on a condom after premarital sex.......
I wasn't born yesterday either and I have lived the expereience..........
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I like MG a lot but him and I have very different views on this. From reading his posts I think he would be in favor of going back to branding an A on the forehead of adulturers.