Everyone has to make there own choices, it's admirable that yall gave him the opportunity to take care of himself and his family when he was down and out.....but that don't mean that you need to go down on the same ship he is in the process of sinking.
Explain to him the problems he is causing.. explain why its not acceptable, explain what behavior you do expect from him, and then put the ball squarely in his court. Either he plays nice or he has to go... business comes before family... that's the ugly hard truth.... the business is supporting multiple members of the family... one of them screwing it up will cause issues for everyone..
with that said... sorry you having troubles my friend... hope it works out in a good fashion for you... as always let me know if i can be of any assistance.
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