Death overseas

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I got the news almost 3 weeks ago that an old friend of mine that was living in the Phillipines was killed in a motorcycle accident. He was originally from Elton, and he and I worked together years ago. Originally, accordding to his sister, he was embalmed and a memorial service was held in his home town there with his wife and her family. Then he was to be flown back to the US for a funeral and burial in Elton.

After 3 weeks of red tape and 'runaround', looks like his family may finally have him on a plane and coming home. Simply pitiful how the US Embassy handled this and I am sure of some things, and can only speculate on others. I do know that nothing got done until the family wired $10k to them to pay for services???????? Crazy!

My little sister is a mortician with 17 years of service at the same funeral home. She tells me that dealing with funerals with other countries involved is a nightmare for all involved. Her husband frequently travels overseas for work and she already has a plan should something ever happen to him. She and her kids will jump on a plane and go to where his remains happen to be, have a small service and viewing, then cremate and carry him home themselves. It is such a shame they have to think like this and I just wanted to vent, but I know a few guys on here work overseas.