Anyone here been divorced?

[fishinpox]

Originally Posted by Is it October YET?

The problem is we spend too much time together. Plus I am a hard arse and she let's the kids do whatever. I have two step sons(21 and 11)and a 4 year old that is ours. The steps are a complete waste of space. They do nothing. Disrespect both of us. The 21 wanted to fight me the other day cause I told him to grow up. I went after him but the wife stepped in. He is now out of my house. I have been telling my wife for years that I am tired of always being the bad guy. Now that I have had enough she wants to go to counsiling and all that crap. I would rather spend the money on a boat. I guess time will tell.

we did the counsoling thing , dont know if it was to late or what but for what ever reason nothing changed so now we are getting a divorce , but we did try to work things out at least i feel that we did . bottom line something needs to change even if you are in the right you may need to change to make the realitionship work thats what suck and i could not swallow that so i filed for divorce