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[duckman1911]

Just found out the daughters bf's family is going through some tough times due to medical bills for the grandmother. The deal is our daughter was supposed to keep it on the down low. She told us and we want to help. Problem is if we say something he may be embarrassed and possibly be mad because she told us. We love him like family and would do anything for him but don't wont him to feel belittled in any way.