Straightforward or Rude?

[duckman1911]

Our shop is right across the road from a flea market. The market is set up in rows of metal buildings much like a storage unit. For the past few weeks there has been a truck with trailor pulling onto our lot and backing into the flea market almost daily. Today I caught him and knocked on his window.
Me. This is private property not a public turn around.
Him. Am I blocking your lot?
Me. No, but you do not have permission to use our property for your personal driveway.
Him. You're just being a hardazz.
Me. I just walked off as he left.
Later I was at the flea market and just happened to hear him talking to someone else about how much of a rude person I was. I walked right up to his drivers window and greeted him. It was rather funny. He said I was rude for telling him he had no permission to use our property for his personal driveway. I explained to him that I was not being rude I was being straightforward. I never raised my voice or used any profanity. I just explained to him that he was using private property without permission.
Best part. He was an off duty cop........*****

[simplepeddler]

my ex mother in law always said she was straight forward too..........LOL

[T-Bone]

Roll out the roofing nails next time you see him coming.

[AubreyLaHaye458]

If he's just pulling in to get straight to back in I don't see the big deal.


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[duckman1911]

Originally Posted by AubreyLaHaye458

If he's just pulling in to get straight to back in I don't see the big deal.


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True to a certain point. If he bumps into one of my customers cars and dents it but no one saw it and he backs away it becomes a big deal. A big deal I have to pay to fix.

[AubreyLaHaye458]

Originally Posted by duckman1911

True to a certain point. If he bumps into one of my customers cars and dents it but no one saw it and he backs away it becomes a big deal. A big deal I have to pay to fix.

This is true. And me having no idea what your place looks like would lead to this situation. lol


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[marty f]

Originally Posted by duckman1911

Best part. He was an off duty cop........*****

Theres most of the problem

Originally Posted by AubreyLaHaye458

If he's just pulling in to get straight to back in I don't see the big deal.

At first I thought the same thing, but its his property, if he doesn't want this guy doing that he has the right to say STOP IT, cop or not.

[Speck Attack]

[QUOTE=AubreyLaHaye458;751795]If he's just pulling in to get straight to back in I don't see the big deal.

X2.....human kindness goes a long way...

[swampman46]

Originally Posted by AubreyLaHaye458

If he's just pulling in to get straight to back in I don't see the big deal.


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That is the wrong answer on so many levels. Instead of the driver appologizing for the intrusion, like a real man should...he cops an attitude with the property owner for bringing it up. Yeah...no big deal there.

[AubreyLaHaye458]

Originally Posted by swampman46

That is the wrong answer on so many levels. Instead of the driver appologizing for the intrusion, like a real man should...he cops an attitude with the property owner for bringing it up. Yeah...no big deal there.

I must have misread my original statement. Because I don't see anywhere in there where I said it was okay for him to catch an attitude.


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[swampman46]

Originally Posted by AubreyLaHaye458

I must have misread my original statement. Because I don't see anywhere in there where I said it was okay for him to catch an attitude.


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Cmon man, forget the play on words...you know what I'm talking about. The attitude was part of the whole encounter.

[AubreyLaHaye458]

Originally Posted by swampman46

Cmon man, forget the play on words...you know what I'm talking about. The attitude was part of the whole encounter.

No you c'mon. If you'd pay attention to what I wrote you'd be able to see that I was talking about the situation as a whole and not about the one encounter. Because in no way is it okay for anyone to catch an attitude with a landowner in any situation. And until I understood the situation about there being customers cars parked in the area the other guy was using I didn't see what the big deal was.


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[redaddiction]

Would you let him use your property if he asks permission?

[duckman1911]

Originally Posted by redaddiction

Would you let him use your property if he asks permission?

Yes. We discussed this later and I told him he could use the employee driveway but not our customer parking lot. I can't risk him denting a customers car.
If you saw the layout you would realize this guy should not be pulling or backing a trailor.

[MathGeek]

Your property, your rules.

A property owner being assertive about how others are using his property without permission is not rude.

[fishfighter]

Originally Posted by duckman1911

Best part. He was an off duty cop........*****

get ready for extra patrols in your area, he will and he will have his people keep an extra scrutinizing eye on your area, and will probably be giving you trouble for any little thing hahahaha, better be on point cause the eyes of justice are up on you now

[duckman1911]

Originally Posted by fishfighter

get ready for extra patrols in your area, he will and he will have his people keep an extra scrutinizing eye on your area, and will probably be giving you trouble for any little thing hahahaha, better be on point cause the eyes of justice are up on you now

Not really worried about that since he's a sheriff's deputy and I happen to be friends with the sheriff. Always have an ace in the hole

[duckman1911]

I do find it funny how cops are so quick to inform you that they are a cop. Does that make you special in some way? Not to me it doesn't.

[Pull n Pray]

It is your property, your rules.

But what is it hurting? Is he making ruts? Is he blocking your customers from entering and exiting. If he hits a car he will be liable for it. He just trying to make a living like everyone else. I'm sure most of here have a boat to pull and have used private property to turn around or make a wide turn.

[duckman1911]

Originally Posted by Pull n Pray

It is your property, your rules.

But what is it hurting? Is he making ruts? Is he blocking your customers from entering and exiting. If he hits a car he will be liable for it. He just trying to make a living like everyone else. I'm sure most of here have a boat to pull and have used private property to turn around or make a wide turn.

Can't disagree with you or speck to some extent. He will be liable for it if you assume it was witnessed or he is honest about hitting a customers vehicle and confesses. I hold no faith in the latter I assure you. Have had issues in the past with that place and their people. Swung by the shop one Saturday to pick up something and a guy had a full blown vending rig set up on our lot and was plugged into our electrical outlet. Needless to say he did not find me to be a very friendly person that day.