need advice !!

[bobo23]

Seriously dude, GTFO!

[tboy]

Run until winded. Drink powerade. Run further. Repeat.

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Originally Posted by Seeing Spots

I think you already knew the answer to your question before you asked it

[FF_T_Warren]

Your a real stand up guy I can tell by the way you don't want to abandon her in a time of need and emotions. But let me tell you, your stand up guy attitude and caring heart are going to get you in a whole whirlwind of crap that you don't deserve nor do you want part in. If you stay with her your gonna bring a ton of crap on yourself for the majority of your life and you've only got one to live. Better make the best of it and not bring undue troubles on yourself. An if it's the young girl aspect that you like, don't worry plenty of them out there that want to date older guys. Not that you fall into the "older" category but you catch my drift

[Andy C]

Guys yes this is a real post!!! And yes I made my mind up before I posted it. Just wanted some other thoughts or experienceies. With it before i told her!! No I do not take internet advice. But there was some good post as to just say good by bittttccch !!! I know it's not an easy question for anyone to answer. I will keep yall posted on what happens. Thanks.

[Andy C]

Originally Posted by FF_T_Warren

Your a real stand up guy I can tell by the way you don't want to abandon her in a time of need and emotions. But let me tell you, your stand up guy attitude and caring heart are going to get you in a whole whirlwind of crap that you don't deserve nor do you want part in. If you stay with her your gonna bring a ton of crap on yourself for the majority of your life and you've only got one to live. Better make the best of it and not bring undue troubles on yourself. An if it's the young girl aspect that you like, don't worry plenty of them out there that want to date older guys. Not that you fall into the "older" category but you catch my drift

has nothing to do with age for me.
It Just happened we new each other and it worked out! But no I am not ready to have a kid,and for sure one that's not mine!!

[Andy C]

And no she's not a slut or ho that just throws it around. She knows for sure.now but that still don't chang my mind!!

[fullrutt]

Originally Posted by Andy C

And no she's not a slut or ho that just throws it around. She knows for sure.now but that still don't chang my mind!!

Lol


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[MathGeek]

If you are tempted to change your mind and give thought to staying with the pregnant young lady, I recommend you seek advice from your mom, your dad, your uncles, and any grandparents.

[Nickt87]

She's 4 months prego and you've been with her for 3 months and the baby's not yours. Simple math says she prolly had you laying your head on her pillow before the last guys imprint even had time to get cold. Not sayin shes a skeez, but damn.

Give her a gift card to baby gap, tell her congrats, and hit the road....FAST!

If not, you'll be setting yourself up for 100000000xs the trouble, heartache, and drama then the little bit you'll have to deal with right now.

[MathGeek]

But if you're gonna cut her loose, then cut her loose. It ain't right shopliftin' the pooty if you are not going to hang around.

[Andy C]

I know I know!!! All good points, and I have talked to them, and got there opinions, and half I just can't agree with, is way I was asking here. To get real world advice !!

[dave]

put as much distance between the two of you as possible. anything less than that, and well... its an issue that will always be in the back of your mind if you stay. bad health and terrible times are sure to follow

[Bdub]

Truth is she knew she was preggo and just never told you, doubt she went 4 months without knowing...probably didn't want to face it...GTFO while you can!

[Goooh]

Originally Posted by Andy C

And no she's not a slut or ho that just throws it around. She knows for sure.now but that still don't chang my mind!!

I don't know man, some dude left a potent oil slick in that 2 pay periods before you. And that's the only time you know about because she got pregnant.

3 months ain't enough time to know anything about anyone.

[Salty]

Originally Posted by MathGeek

If you are tempted to change your mind and give thought to staying with the pregnant young lady, I recommend you seek advice from your mom, your dad, your uncles, and any grandparents.

This...and not on the internet.

[lsufish]

You can't be serious. This is obviously a horrible idea to even consider.

Unless you have out kicked your coverage, and she was way hotter than any woman you are typically with.

If that's the case, I say let it ride and disregard my previous statements.

[Raymond]

My last post on this.
Andy you seam like a squared up dood. If she will listen to you, suggest the following to her;
1. Start acting like an adult (zero alchohol or drugs)
2. Find an adoptive family for baby (easy to do)
3. Follow through with adoption ( see #1)
4. Find someone to sort out her issues

Good Luck and God Bless

[Jordan]

Originally Posted by Raymond

My last post on this.
Andy you seam like a squared up dood. If she will listen to you, suggest the following to her;
1. Start acting like an adult (zero alchohol or drugs)
2. Find an adoptive family for baby (easy to do)
3. Follow through with adoption ( see #1)
4. Find someone to sort out her issues

Good Luck and God Bless

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