need advice !!

[Feesherman]

Originally Posted by Raymond

My last post on this.
Andy you seam like a squared up dood. If she will listen to you, suggest the following to her;
1. Start acting like an adult (zero alchohol or drugs)
2. Find an adoptive family for baby (easy to do)
3. Follow through with adoption ( see #1)
4. Find someone to sort out her issues

Good Luck and God Bless

Negative! Run and run fast, u will thank us!

[jopete]

u need to punch that ho in the stomach.
i'm guessing this is the only girl u have ever slept with. lol

i think u should marry her and give her babbydaddy a 'reach-around' every time he comes by to knock her up again. at least that's what oprah would say.
keep us posted......

[Andy C]

Some good advice some really bad advice!! Thanks, we are going to talk tonight again an told her I would make my mind up by Wed. That way I have time to thank about it, and she dose to. And I don't just spring it on her whatever I decide!! I thank that's far!!

decision is

[biggun]

I agree with RAYMOND 100X....

[Ilovestohunt]

Originally Posted by "W"

RUN RUN RUN..........you about to be in bady daddy/Mamma Drama !!

AMEN!!!!

[irokcj5]

Don't try to fall in love with someone you have to fix first. You both can get over a 3 month relationship pretty easy. Move on, find a woman that knocks your socks off and you can't be around enough.. Been with mine for over 28 years.

[specktator]

I had a similar situation. Found out girl I used to poke after the bars sometimes was pregnant when I was 21 y/o. There was a chance it was mine but she had been dating another guy and they were sure it was his. Started dating my wife about 2 months later. I told my wife when we started getting serious that there was a chance that I might be having a kid in a few months. She was shocked but stuck with me. Well, she ended up being mine. Now my daughter is 8 years old and I wouldn't change it for anything. My wife and I just had our first daughter this last Sunday.

Gotta know when to hold em and know when to fold em. IMO, I wouldn't stay with her. She is way too young and still plans on doing a lot more partying. My baby momma was very similar with the drinking and partying. Thought never even crossed my mind to be with baby momma. Even though my wife stayed with me, b/c she is a saint. I can't say I would have done the same!

[BigErn]

She knew...trust me. Don't do that to yourself.

Been there years ago. Finally made since why the one I was seeing was adamant about not using protection. Luckily, I was adamant about using it, and she got would get pissed. She had plans...

[haoward]

Buy one get one free..

[Wide Open]

Don't take this disrespectfully Andy, but!

R u phuccckkking kidding!
Use ur damn head north of ur penis for a change!

Drop that ho like a shot from a gun! Boom the **** just got real!

[alphaman]

Follow your heart!

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[Capt.B]

Originally Posted by raymond

change your phone number and move, today

xxxxxxxxxx100000000000000000........

[Msucowpoke51]

Run for the hills!!

[BuckingFastard]

wait wait, lets see a picture of her to see if its worth it first....

[DannyI]

Well heres the deal, you asked for advice knowing you would get "good" & "bad" at both extremes, with you determining what is good & bad. But the truth is, only you can make the decision. Only you know whether she is worth staying involved with or letting her go. Don't go by "she is pregnant and needs a baby daddy", go by what is she worth to you. If your not sure, I can assure you, if you really pray and ask GOD what to do, HE will direct your footsteps. If you choose to stay with her, there has to be some "growing up", and she needs to become responsible for the life she is carrying. And if she really cares for you, its time for the partying to end, and start developing a family life style.

Just My Opinion

[Nickt87]

Originally Posted by BuckingFastard

wait wait, lets see a picture of her to see if its worth it first....

There ain't a pucceee out there that I'd stick around for with that situation. Not one, I can promise you that.

[BuckingFastard]

Originally Posted by Nickt87

There ain't a pucceee out there that I'd stick around for with that situation. Not one, I can promise you that.

oh same here... i just wanted to see why he was whipped in the first place lolol

[Andy C]

Well that's it, sent her packing yesterday, just didn't feel right getting stuck raising anuther mans child. Its not what I signed up for when I started dateing her. Had I known going into it I could have made my decision weather to date her or not, and I would not have. So I cut her loose.

[BassYakR]

Congrats!

[bgizzle]

Originally Posted by Andy C

Well that's it, sent her packing yesterday, just didn't feel right getting stuck raising anuther mans child. Its not what I signed up for when I started dateing her. Had I known going into it I could have made my decision weather to date her or not, and I would not have. So I cut her loose.

Congrats man


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