Need some parenting help.....

[PaulMyers]

Originally Posted by Dink

I just hope Jacob is smarter than I was......

Don't think that will be a problem!

All I know is keep the lines of communication open at all times. It can be really hard to do but I feel it is a must. My 0.02

[JDd]

Originally Posted by Dink

To me, boys and girls are different......little girls should be cherished, boys need to becomes men.......

So having sex at 13 makes you a man?

[Hopedale Hustler]

Originally Posted by JDd

So having sex at 13 makes you a man?

Dude seriously y does every post on this site have atleast one person in it that can't just state their opinion and be done....dude let us know how u feel and that's it...not all people believe wat you believe or feel the way you do. No one is saying it makes u a man...but it is a big.part and step twoards manhood.

[eman]

Originally Posted by JDd

I just wonder if y'all tell y'all daughters the same thing.

Yes i would tell my daughter the same thing i told my son and at the same age. We as parents can stay informed and teach our children our values and tell them what we expect from them . But we can not be w/ them 24 / 7. If you don't believe that your kids are hearing about sex from other kids at age 10 on up you better think again. And what school or church they go to makes no difference. I would rather teach my children at a young age , than have a child having children.

[eman]

Originally Posted by JDd

So having sex at 13 makes you a man?

NO and neither does having sex at 23.

[Hopedale Hustler]

And I'm not saying sex at 13 is ok but if my 16 year old kid has him a girl and it happens Ima be there for him and ill have comfort in.knowing he's being careful..

[JDd]

Originally Posted by Hopedale Hustler

Dude seriously y does every post on this site have atleast one person in it that can't just state their opinion and be done....dude let us know how u feel and that's it...not all people believe wat you believe or feel the way you do. No one is saying it makes u a man...but it is a big.part and step twoards manhood.

Sorry, sex at 13 is not "a big.part and step twoards manhood.

And if you think that is what defines a man, you aren't one yet either.

[JDd]

Originally Posted by eman

NO and neither does having sex at 23.

Ditto

[Hopedale Hustler]

Originally Posted by JDd

Sorry, sex at 13 is not "a big.part and step twoards manhood.

And if you think that is what defines a man, you aren't one yet either.

I didn't say sex at 13 head...I said sex.in general...like I said if u have issues with peoples opinions then u may need to go to a different site cause we seem to have different opinions alot...state yours and quit bashing others...



Chicken this may as welll go to the g net.

[JDd]

Originally Posted by Hopedale Hustler

if u have issues with peoples opinions then u may need to go to a different site cause we seem to have different opinions alot...

So you have issues with my opinion I see.

[Hopedale Hustler]

Originally Posted by JDd

So you have issues with my opinion I see.

Not what so ever sir....never said you were wrong or that your opinion is wrong....but quit trying to say mine or anyone else's is.

[Micah]

Originally Posted by JDd

So you have issues with my opinion I see.

Why are you trying to start ****?

[Hopedale Hustler]

[QUOTE=Marsh Boy;307585]Why are you trying to start ****?[/QUGi



Gill net

[Kenner18]

I smell a rat !!!!

[Micah]

[quote=Hopedale Hustler;307589]

Originally Posted by Marsh Boy

Why are you trying to start ****?[/QUGi



Gill net

Lol, I'm there

[Kenner18]

Dink good luck . Whatever you do I hope for the best. I didnt get the talk ,I learned on the streets and at 16 I had a son.

[southern151]

Originally Posted by JDd

I just wonder if y'all tell y'all daughters the same thing.

Yessir, I will. Education is everything.

[gonzalesdave]

Originally Posted by fun w son

i remember when my dad had "the talk" with me. i knew everything he was saying already but it was more the "way" he was saying it. it was the first time that he actually talked to me like a man. it was very serious conversation that i remember to this day. i think the main message that he got though to me was that there was a great deal of responsibilty with having sex. i just hope that the day i have the talk with my son, that i will convey to him the seriousness of taking that step in life. honesty is the best policy!

Pretty good advice here IMO

[booyagasha]

yea, communication is key, and come up with catchy lines that he'll remember forever...some of the ones i still remember are...

- eating out is like eating at restaurants, you DONT eat at every ONE...
-you can play in the red river , NEVER DRINK from it,...
-Cover your stump before you hump
-The right selection, is to protect your erection

[Pole_benda]

Guys the way I see it and correct me if I'm wrong, dink was asking for advice. I get what JDd is saying sex at 13 even though is inevitable shouldn't be condoned. I was young dumb full of *** once, the question to ask him is if he is ready to be a Father? He should understand the repercussions. But I agree with what fool said, he needs to know you'll be there for him. While your at it get him a box of condoms, most kids are scared of getting some or use the one they got from sex ed class 1 year ago, only to have it break on them.

This is a open forum and I don't believe JDd was being a troll. Imo