need advice !!

[Andy C]

Just found out my girlfriend of 3 month's is pregnant!! And it's not mine(she was pregnant a month before we met) either one of us know. I am 34 she is 22. I know its an age gap. Not what I am worried about. Worried about she has not taking care of herself( been falling down drunk more then once since we met) yes she claims she didn't know.. my question is can i/should I raise a nothier man's kid. It would be different if she had a kid or would have known she was pregnant when we met.... any advice/ life story's would help. I know it's not an easy thing to talk about in this switchwashon..

[Raymond]

Originally Posted by Andy C

Just found out my girlfriend of 3 month's is pregnant!! And it's not mine(she was pregnant a month before we met) either one of us know. I am 34 she is 22. I know its an age gap. Not what I am worried about. Worried about she has not taking care of herself( been falling down drunk more then once since we met) yes she claims she didn't know.. my question is can i/should I raise a nothier man's kid. It would be different if she had a kid or would have known she was pregnant when we met.... any advice/ life story's would help. I know it's not an easy thing to talk about in this switchwashon..

Change your phone number and move, TODAY

["W"]

RUN RUN RUN..........you about to be in bady daddy/Mamma Drama !!

[BuckingFastard]

Originally Posted by Raymond

Change your phone number and move, TODAY

i was gonna say the same thing... plus it sounds like she was just a child still. not wifeing material if she is still a "party" girl.... my friend had the same thing happen to him and best advice is to send her packing right now before its too late and you fall in love with a baby that isn't yours!

[Duck Butter]

run run run



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If not a serious post still

[Raymond]

Bet this thread goes Double Epic

[Reefman]

Originally Posted by Andy C

Just found out my girlfriend of 3 month's is pregnant!!....(she was pregnant a month before we met) she claims she didn't know..

Four months pregnant and she didn't know it?????? Sorry, not acceptable these days....I sure couldn't maintain a relationship with a sense of distrust that this issue brings up.

[BassYakR]

RUN RUN RUN!!! but not till after you have a lil fun first!! Cant get her double preggo! lol

[Jordan]

Originally Posted by BassYakR

RUN RUN RUN!!! but not till after you have a lil fun first!! Cant get her double preggo! lol

*****, then she'll be claiming its his....

[BassYakR]

Originally Posted by Jordan

*****, then she'll be claiming its his....

Yeah but he already knows betta!

[Jordan]

true dat....

[fishfighter]

drama drama drama

[swamp snorkler]

Seriously I would split.

Cut your loses now and you'll be okay.



I have a workfriend that was in the same situation as you. He's since split with the girl but is still a father figure to the daughter she had while they were dating. He's paying for her to go to LSU. Girls dad is no where in the picture.

And remember...... the best way to get over one chic is to get into another one.

[Matt G]

Originally Posted by Reefman

Four months pregnant and she didn't know it?????? Sorry, not acceptable these days....I sure couldn't maintain a relationship with a sense of distrust that this issue brings up.

Originally Posted by BassYakR

RUN RUN RUN!!! but not till after you have a lil fun first!! Cant get her double preggo! lol

[Seeing Spots]

I think you already knew the answer to your question before you asked it

[Lake Chuck Duck]

Been together 3 months and you talking about raising another man's unborn kid? Drop that like a bad habbit! There is no investment there.

[Goooh]

Gtfo

[kb7722]

1) Don't go to the internet for advise

2) The age gap maybe a bigger deal than you think. It sounds like she still has alot of growing up to do. Maybe you do to; I don't know you. You do not want to be the only mature adult in the situation when its not even your kid. And, you don't want to realize what you want out of adult life and she could still may years to go before she gets to that point.

It's noble of you to try and help her out. But she got herself in the situation and she needs to figure it out. You can still remain supportive of her, but I would step back from the relationship for awhile and let emotions cool down.

[fullrutt]

Originally Posted by kb7722

1) Don't go to the internet for advise

2) The age gap maybe a bigger deal than you think. It sounds like she still has alot of growing up to do. Maybe you do to; I don't know you. You do not want to be the only mature adult in the situation when its not even your kid. And, you don't want to realize what you want out of adult life and she could still may years to go before she gets to that point.

It's noble of you to try and help her out. But she got herself in the situation and she needs to figure it out. You can still remain supportive of her, but I would step back from the relationship for awhile and let emotions cool down.

I agree with this... But if I was you, you better go to the Doc and get check and make sure she didn't give you anything in return.. Sounds like she has been mushroom head jumping pretty good


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