Caught Cheating,,,spraybombed Truck

[swampman46]

Originally Posted by eman

Fixing to make 31 years of marriage. I have always told my wife that If she ever decided that she wanted to have an affair to just tell me she wanted a divorce. Because there would be no forgiving or 2nd chances.
And i put the same constraints on myself because i could not expect forgiveness from her for breaking our vows we swore before God and our family and friends.

My wife and I discussed that very same thing years ago. Once trust is lost...so is the marriage. Rarely does trust ever return to it's original state.

[MathGeek]

Originally Posted by Top Dawg

FYI if the ole lady ever leaves me she won't see a dime of alimony. Regardless of what the judge says.

They've gotten pretty good at collecting. Stuff like garnishing your wages (find you by your ssn) and not letting you buy a fishing license or renew your driver's license until you are paid up. Not sure if LA is playing all these cards, but other states are and it will get here soon enough.

[Top Dawg]

I'll go to jail and quit my job and work cash. I promise u. I won't pay for my ex to live with other dudes. Promise u.

[MathGeek]

Originally Posted by Top Dawg

I'll go to jail and quit my job and work cash. I promise u. I won't pay for my ex to live with other dudes. Promise u.

I get that, I really do. Just giving you a heads up regarding what it might take.

[Top Dawg]

I'll do whatever it takes

[simplepeddler]

Originally Posted by Top Dawg

I'll do whatever it takes

it would likely take moving out the country........

[eman]

Originally Posted by simplepeddler

it would likely take moving out the country........

Costa rica is nice this time of year?

[MathGeek]

Originally Posted by eman

Costa rica is nice this time of year?

If I go to Costa Rica, I'm taking my wife with me.

[duckman1911]

Originally Posted by eman

Fixing to make 31 years of marriage. I have always told my wife that If she ever decided that she wanted to have an affair to just tell me she wanted a divorce. Because there would be no forgiving or 2nd chances.
And i put the same constraints on myself because i could not expect forgiveness from her for breaking our vows we swore before God and our family and friends.

I guess it comes down to a personal choice for the person cheated on and then a choice as a couple as to what happens. I've walk that road as the cheater. We chose to get past it and we did. Not saying it was a cake walk but it can be done. Everyone makes bad decisions. Some are just worse than others. I crushed my best friend and I have to live with that forever. No amaunt of forgiveness from her will ever make me feel better. Am I a bad person? I guess it depends who you ask. I have four judges of my life. Im doing good with the first three. I haven't met the fourth one yet. I hope its a long time before I do.

[Top Dawg]

Originally Posted by simplepeddler

it would likely take moving out the country........

Fine by me