Anyone here been divorced?

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Originally Posted by Is it October YET?

The problem is we spend too much time together. Plus I am a hard arse and she let's the kids do whatever. I have two step sons(21 and 11)and a 4 year old that is ours. The steps are a complete waste of space. They do nothing. Disrespect both of us. The 21 wanted to fight me the other day cause I told him to grow up. I went after him but the wife stepped in. He is now out of my house. I have been telling my wife for years that I am tired of always being the bad guy. Now that I have had enough she wants to go to counsiling and all that crap. I would rather spend the money on a boat. I guess time will tell.

i know someone going through nearly the same thing and they are now getting a divorce. They've been through counselling a few times and everything but she doesn't discipline the children and every time he steps in; she makes him look like the bad guy. The kids are terrible when she's around but if they are only around him; they are well behaved. He has already told her that they are getting divorced over stupidity. That was his exact words. Good luck and sending prayers.