Need some parenting help.....

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Im not sure if Id let him know you went through his phone. He might loose his trust for you.It definatly needs to be talked about though.Personally I think you should wait for marriage.I didnt and had two girls at age 19 with a girl I cant stand!! I got full custody of my two girls when they were 2 and 3 and still have them today!Most guys at that age would run and not accept the responsibility of their actions.Children born out of wedlock usually have a pretty rough life.One parents usually not around and nothing can heal that pain.Im sure since he is your stepson he can relate to broken homes so maybe that will help.Talk to him about how a girl should be respected and that girls that sleep around are not.Good luck with this one,there was good and bad advice on the thread so I hope it works out for ya!