need advice !!

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I had a similar situation. Found out girl I used to poke after the bars sometimes was pregnant when I was 21 y/o. There was a chance it was mine but she had been dating another guy and they were sure it was his. Started dating my wife about 2 months later. I told my wife when we started getting serious that there was a chance that I might be having a kid in a few months. She was shocked but stuck with me. Well, she ended up being mine. Now my daughter is 8 years old and I wouldn't change it for anything. My wife and I just had our first daughter this last Sunday.

Gotta know when to hold em and know when to fold em. IMO, I wouldn't stay with her. She is way too young and still plans on doing a lot more partying. My baby momma was very similar with the drinking and partying. Thought never even crossed my mind to be with baby momma. Even though my wife stayed with me, b/c she is a saint. I can't say I would have done the same!